Trying the find "the one" can be hard in today's age of Tinder and casual flings. While dating someone new is always different, heartbreak always hurts and the potential of it can be there in the back of your mind with your new beau. So how can you know if he's a waste of time or someone to take a chance on? How do you know if he's the one for you? Here are the 7 best ways to tell if he's the one for you.
Imagine that you are watching 21 Jump Street together and he's laughing at the hilarious Jonah Hill. Are you drooling over Channing Tatum or are you too busy watching your man laugh and enjoy the movie? If so, he may be the one.
2 He Brings You Flowers Just Because
If he brings you flowers to your work, at your home before you head off to work, or simply because your old ones have developed an odor because you've let them sit for weeks after they've died, you've got a keeper. He earns double points if he brings the flowers to you himself because this shows that he cares and wants to see your reaction. If your man brings you flowers often and on random days, he may be the one.
3 He Cares about Your Well-being
When you are sick, does he flee at the first sign of a cough, or does he stick by and help you through your sickness? If he makes you Campbell's chicken noodle soup, he's a keeper and truly cares about you. If he runs to the store to get you some Pepto Bismol when your stomach is upset, this man not only loves you, but could possibly be the one for you.
4 He Loves Every Part of You
If he loves everything about you, including the things guys in the past didn't love, he could be the one for you. Let's say that you are a crier and cry often. This can make guys uncomfortable quick in a relationship, especially if they don't see the relationship as something serious and are just playing around with you. The guy who is the one for you will be different. He will hold you when you cry and ask questions about why you are upset. He will then try to make you smile or laugh because he hates to see you cry. This not only includes crying but any part of your personality that not every guy has liked. If your man loves you, all of you completely, he may be the one.
5 He Tells You Everything
If he shares everything with you, and vice versa, you have a strong relationship built that can stand the test of time. If he not only tells you when he runs into his ex, but also details about his work life, what he ate for lunch, etc. he feels that you are an important part of his life and wants to share other parts of his life with you. This is very important if he wants to share with you details about his day when he isn't with you because it shows that he has nothing to hide and that his heart and life are with you. If he tells you everything, your guy may be the one for you.
6 You Feel like Yourself with Him
Dating can be tricky at first because you want to impress the person that you are with. In the right relationship with the right person, it will be easy to be yourself. This is really important in a lasting relationship because your man needs to know the real you in order to fall in love with you, rather than just some skewed version of you. If you're yourself around him, he may be the one.
7 He Gushes about You
If random people you've never met tell you how much your man loves you, he is head over heels in love with you and may be the one. If he tells his coworkers about you and brags about how beautiful, smart, and sweet you are, he is smitten and nothing could drive him away from you. If he gushes about you, he may be the one.
Trying to figure out if the guy you're with is the one is not as hard as it may seem. If he does all of these things, then you already know that he loves you and would do anything for you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. If he does these things for you, he is the one.
